Wow - this is it - well almost. Tomorrow I turn (gulp) 49. It's not that getting older bothers me...at least not really. After all, I'm living my life exactly the way I want to be, doing things that I want to be doing.
I'm happy. I'm married to my soul mate, partner and best friend, my kids are happy, well-adjusted - really NICE people, and I love my work.
It's just that this is the last year I'm going to be able to say I'm in my 40s. It's the end of a decade and the beginning of another.
It will be interesting to see what life has in store for me...
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Thursday, October 11, 2007
How do You Deal with those little "aches and pains" in the morning?
Autumn is my favorite season - I love the weather, the fall colors, that little "snap" in the air, even the fact that now that things are cooling off a bit, I'm more in the mood to do "real" cooking - food that can be cooked slowly over a low temperature - roasts, beans, soups - all of it.
The only thing I DON'T like is the fact that I'm stiff and sore more mornings now. As soon as I roll over to get out of bed, I find lots of little aches and pains. And my fingers are stiff - which makes typing harder. (Thank God for spell check, because my fingers are making more mistakes until they get limbered up).
One good thing is that the treatment the doctor has me on - a mix of low-dose steroids and a weekly injection - has meant that I'm no longer walking with a crutch or a cane, and we took the wheelchair back - I don't need it any more either! (Yippee!) It's so exhilarating to be able to just go out and walk whenever and wherever I feel like! Of course, I'm still having to walk in moderation - we took Elsa to the OK Coral (a wild-west themed amusement park here in the French Riviera) for her birthday, and after walking around for four hours, I could hardly move the next day!
But still - there's an incredible sense of freedom - of power - in feeling like myself again - and in knowing that I can get out and go walking like I used to. Last week when I was getting ready for the big family birthday party that we threw (four people all had their birthdays in September and October here), I walked down through the open-air market all the way to the pier - and then walked along the pier, just because it was a beautiful day and I wanted to enjoy watching people...it was wonderful!
The thing is, I don't want to be taking a bunch of drugs - well, okay, I'm already taking a bunch - so I don't want to add to it! Instead, I want to find some other ways of dealing with the arthritis and those little aches and pains in the morning. I'm going to start checking out natural remedies and may even check into massage and yoga and see what else is out there...so if you have any ideas, let me know!
The only thing I DON'T like is the fact that I'm stiff and sore more mornings now. As soon as I roll over to get out of bed, I find lots of little aches and pains. And my fingers are stiff - which makes typing harder. (Thank God for spell check, because my fingers are making more mistakes until they get limbered up).
One good thing is that the treatment the doctor has me on - a mix of low-dose steroids and a weekly injection - has meant that I'm no longer walking with a crutch or a cane, and we took the wheelchair back - I don't need it any more either! (Yippee!) It's so exhilarating to be able to just go out and walk whenever and wherever I feel like! Of course, I'm still having to walk in moderation - we took Elsa to the OK Coral (a wild-west themed amusement park here in the French Riviera) for her birthday, and after walking around for four hours, I could hardly move the next day!
But still - there's an incredible sense of freedom - of power - in feeling like myself again - and in knowing that I can get out and go walking like I used to. Last week when I was getting ready for the big family birthday party that we threw (four people all had their birthdays in September and October here), I walked down through the open-air market all the way to the pier - and then walked along the pier, just because it was a beautiful day and I wanted to enjoy watching people...it was wonderful!
The thing is, I don't want to be taking a bunch of drugs - well, okay, I'm already taking a bunch - so I don't want to add to it! Instead, I want to find some other ways of dealing with the arthritis and those little aches and pains in the morning. I'm going to start checking out natural remedies and may even check into massage and yoga and see what else is out there...so if you have any ideas, let me know!
Friday, September 21, 2007
Is Lilli Coming Out of the Closet?
Apparently not! This is her favorite place to nap during the day right now. We've had a bit of an Indian summer here on the French Riviera, and she's discovered that the top of the coat closet is cool, dark and apparently comfortable...With as hectic as things have been lately, there are days I wouldn't mind joining her up there.
I haven't had much time to post here lately - although there's been lots going on health and fitness wise, but it's also been a very busy summer and I've spent a lot of it working. (Although we did manage to get some vacationing and short day trips in too.)
In fact, today we're going to go and play hookey and go to Monaco again (we were there last weekend as well to see the Princess Grace exhibit) but this weekend it's the yacht show and we thought we'd go take a look at the latest in super yachts...
I haven't had much time to post here lately - although there's been lots going on health and fitness wise, but it's also been a very busy summer and I've spent a lot of it working. (Although we did manage to get some vacationing and short day trips in too.)
In fact, today we're going to go and play hookey and go to Monaco again (we were there last weekend as well to see the Princess Grace exhibit) but this weekend it's the yacht show and we thought we'd go take a look at the latest in super yachts...
Saturday, July 14, 2007
The Importance of Taking it Easy
One of the most important things you can do for your physical and emotional health is to plan for some downtime in your life.
Taking the time to stop and smell the roses will keep your mind and body sharp and lower your stress levels.
I found an interesting post on another blog that talks about how so many people these days plan their vacations online - everything from doing the actual research to booking airline reservations and hotels.
The other thing that you should remember when planning your vacation is to consider what type of vacation you want to take. Think about what makes you relax and enjoy yourself.
For example, you might want to get back to nature - and take a trip to the mountains, where you can hike, backpack and commune with nature. (Personally, my idea of roughing it is when you go to a hotel where room service stops at 10 and housekeeping doesn't put those little chocolate mints on your pillow when they come in to turn down your bed.) But, some people actually like that type of vacation.
For me, having all the latest modern conveniences is a necessary part of any vacation I take. I like having a soft bed, running water and real toilets.
So whether you like quiet vacations in a small village by the sea, staying at a pied-de-terre in a thriving metropolis or camping in the wilderness, try to plan at least one vacation a year. And remember, a vacation can also be just overnight - or even for a few hours, as long as you're doing something that relaxes your mind and renews your spirit.
Taking the time to stop and smell the roses will keep your mind and body sharp and lower your stress levels.
I found an interesting post on another blog that talks about how so many people these days plan their vacations online - everything from doing the actual research to booking airline reservations and hotels.
The other thing that you should remember when planning your vacation is to consider what type of vacation you want to take. Think about what makes you relax and enjoy yourself.
For example, you might want to get back to nature - and take a trip to the mountains, where you can hike, backpack and commune with nature. (Personally, my idea of roughing it is when you go to a hotel where room service stops at 10 and housekeeping doesn't put those little chocolate mints on your pillow when they come in to turn down your bed.) But, some people actually like that type of vacation.
For me, having all the latest modern conveniences is a necessary part of any vacation I take. I like having a soft bed, running water and real toilets.
So whether you like quiet vacations in a small village by the sea, staying at a pied-de-terre in a thriving metropolis or camping in the wilderness, try to plan at least one vacation a year. And remember, a vacation can also be just overnight - or even for a few hours, as long as you're doing something that relaxes your mind and renews your spirit.
Monday, July 9, 2007
My Ah-Ha Moment Happened - I understand what I want to be when I grow up!
It's funny how those "Ah-Ha" moments sometimes sneak up on you. The light bulb goes off, there's a sudden shift of perspective, and all of a sudden, things that were murky become clear.
That's what happened to me last night - or rather, early this morning. I've been really struggling with my "what's next" - what do I want to spend the rest of my working life doing? What am I passionate about, and what gets me excited enough to want to spend my time on it?
I've got a great business, and it started out as something that I loved. (I teach people how to create a business strategy that will give them the lifestyle that they want, help them figure out how much business capital they need and show them how and where to connect to the people and programs that can help them get those resources.) And that branched out into doing writing - which started as writing business plans and proposals, and then moved into copywriting and ghostwriting.
And, because I'm here, on the French Riviera, and we travel a lot, I also started doing some travel writing. And of course, blogging.
But I still felt like I was floundering around in a pool of quicksand.
I'm passionate about all of those things, and I love doing them. But I still wasn't sure if any of it was what I was "meant" to do.
And then last night, I did a special vision meditation before I went to sleep. (If that's too woo-woo for you, in more logical terms, I started really thinking about what I want to be when I grow up.)
And I had a dream - and in the dream, I was lost - but when I was found - the wise woman who found me and was leading me back to civilization and I had a long conversation - and I was telling her about my adventures. And she stopped and looked at me with a smile, and said "So now you know what you forgot - you are meant to be a story teller."
And it's really that simple.
And it's true.
I am a teller of stories. I've always been a collector and a teller of tales. When I worked for different nonprofit organizations, one of the reasons that we got such large grants was because we told the stories of the people who were struggling to get out of survival mode and who wanted to make changes in their lives.
And when I started working with small business owners to help them write business proposals or grants - one of the reasons they got approved for funding was because of the way we told the story of their businesses.
And even now, as a copywriter and ghostwriter - I'm still telling the stories that need to be told.
Wow - I feel like someone gave me the key to a door that has been locked for most of my life - and behind that door was the answer to the greatest and most wonderful of mysteries - and yet, now that I've opened it - I'm delighted with the simplicity of what is my truth - about who I am, and what I do.
I am a story teller.
That's what happened to me last night - or rather, early this morning. I've been really struggling with my "what's next" - what do I want to spend the rest of my working life doing? What am I passionate about, and what gets me excited enough to want to spend my time on it?
I've got a great business, and it started out as something that I loved. (I teach people how to create a business strategy that will give them the lifestyle that they want, help them figure out how much business capital they need and show them how and where to connect to the people and programs that can help them get those resources.) And that branched out into doing writing - which started as writing business plans and proposals, and then moved into copywriting and ghostwriting.
And, because I'm here, on the French Riviera, and we travel a lot, I also started doing some travel writing. And of course, blogging.
But I still felt like I was floundering around in a pool of quicksand.
I'm passionate about all of those things, and I love doing them. But I still wasn't sure if any of it was what I was "meant" to do.
And then last night, I did a special vision meditation before I went to sleep. (If that's too woo-woo for you, in more logical terms, I started really thinking about what I want to be when I grow up.)
And I had a dream - and in the dream, I was lost - but when I was found - the wise woman who found me and was leading me back to civilization and I had a long conversation - and I was telling her about my adventures. And she stopped and looked at me with a smile, and said "So now you know what you forgot - you are meant to be a story teller."
And it's really that simple.
And it's true.
I am a teller of stories. I've always been a collector and a teller of tales. When I worked for different nonprofit organizations, one of the reasons that we got such large grants was because we told the stories of the people who were struggling to get out of survival mode and who wanted to make changes in their lives.
And when I started working with small business owners to help them write business proposals or grants - one of the reasons they got approved for funding was because of the way we told the story of their businesses.
And even now, as a copywriter and ghostwriter - I'm still telling the stories that need to be told.
Wow - I feel like someone gave me the key to a door that has been locked for most of my life - and behind that door was the answer to the greatest and most wonderful of mysteries - and yet, now that I've opened it - I'm delighted with the simplicity of what is my truth - about who I am, and what I do.
I am a story teller.
Friday, July 6, 2007
French Riviera Beach Scene
This was taken before the summer vacation officially started - the beaches were relatively uncrowded - which, unluckily isn't the case any more.
However, the weather is gorgeous (we get about 300 days of sunshine here), and the water is a perfect way to fight the heat.
And although most women here started getting suntans back in May, I don't see much sign of leather skin, or hear of problems with skin cancer. People are very conscious of the need to take care of their skin and use sunblocks and make sure they add lots of moisture as well.
It's a completely different attitude here than it is in the states and I've gotten used to being in the sun again, and not worrying about it so much.
However, the weather is gorgeous (we get about 300 days of sunshine here), and the water is a perfect way to fight the heat.
And although most women here started getting suntans back in May, I don't see much sign of leather skin, or hear of problems with skin cancer. People are very conscious of the need to take care of their skin and use sunblocks and make sure they add lots of moisture as well.
It's a completely different attitude here than it is in the states and I've gotten used to being in the sun again, and not worrying about it so much.
Sunday, July 1, 2007
The real secret to resistance exercises
While I was shopping at the market this morning, I noticed this woman who was carrying a baby - the baby couldn't have been more than three or four months old - and she looked great - especially her upper arms. (Lately mine have kept waving after I'm finished, you know?)
And I realized something - she's carting around something that weighs the equivalent of 20 or 30 pounds! Any mother has done it - and as your children got older - and heavier, you probably still spent time carrying them.
So why, I can't help wondering have I been so worried about lifting heavier weights in my resistance training program? I mean, sure, I don't want to end up looking like Arnold - but when my kids were babies I carried them every day - sometimes for several hours a day - and never ended up being mistaken for the Terminator...hmmm...in fact, my arms looked really good back then - very sculpted, lots of definition.
So I did a little research, and asked my favorite weight loss guru, and it turns out that using heavier weights - for shorter, more intense periods of time, will actually help build muscle - and increase definition - but not bulk you out.
So, I'm going to try it. I'll keep you informed on how it's working. As long as I can get back to where the skin under my arms quits waving when I do, I'll be happy...
And I realized something - she's carting around something that weighs the equivalent of 20 or 30 pounds! Any mother has done it - and as your children got older - and heavier, you probably still spent time carrying them.
So why, I can't help wondering have I been so worried about lifting heavier weights in my resistance training program? I mean, sure, I don't want to end up looking like Arnold - but when my kids were babies I carried them every day - sometimes for several hours a day - and never ended up being mistaken for the Terminator...hmmm...in fact, my arms looked really good back then - very sculpted, lots of definition.
So I did a little research, and asked my favorite weight loss guru, and it turns out that using heavier weights - for shorter, more intense periods of time, will actually help build muscle - and increase definition - but not bulk you out.
So, I'm going to try it. I'll keep you informed on how it's working. As long as I can get back to where the skin under my arms quits waving when I do, I'll be happy...
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